At the close of every year, I stop and contemplate. I consider each horse at our farm. I think about myself, as a rider, horseperson and human. I set goals, and reflect on progress (or lack thereof on occasion). And then I plan. Then, more regularly than not, I adapt my plan. And it’s not unheard of for me to adapt my plan again through the year.

When I hit a blip in my goals, I stop and pause and consider what is blocking me. Is it fear? Fear of being incorrect? Fear of getting hurt or hurting a horse? Perhaps a lack of knowledge is preventing forward motion? If it’s any of these things, establishing a goal and then laying out small structured steps to keep moving can make all the difference.

Then, as I look at my goals, I set an aspirational dream, which may or may not seem attainable, but keeps me stretching myself. I visualize myself achieving that dream. Then I block out 90-day stretches to set smaller purpose-driven goals.

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