We all want our horses to be happy and enthusiastic about their work, and eager to try their best in each session. But the horse doesn’t define success or failure in riding the way we do. It either feels good or it doesn’t. It’s enjoyable or it’s not. Sometimes they’ll bumble through a lesson or exercise or competition anyway, but a truly willing horse wants to work, and the energy they bring is attentive and responsive, keen to please.

Winning a horse’s willingness is abandoning the notion that the horse owes us as much. The horse owes us nothing. As caregivers and riders, it’s our responsibility to ensure not just our kindness, but proper nutrition and management of their health and psychological needs. Many behavioural problems under saddle can be resolved by addressing pain or discomfort, or diet and management conditions first. If the issues persist, we must take an honest look at ourselves, the tack we use, and how we communicate. Compassion, clarity, and consistency are paramount.

A wrong answer is still an honest attempt and tells us they are paying attention and trying to understand.

Recognizing a ‘Try’

Perhaps most important is trying to understand what the horse is thinking and feeling. By seeing things from their perspective and asking why they behave as they do, we open ourselves up to a deeper understanding. The horse is not at fault for failing to understand us; it is on us to communicate clearly.

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