Here are some tips that will help you develop a healthy attitude and a winning mind.

1. Keep an “Acknowledgment journal”

Keep a journal in your tack box and every time you ride, write down three things that you want to acknowledge yourself for – for example, riding without stirrups, making a connection with your horse, keeping your heels down, remembering to breathe, etc. Far too often we leave the barn or show focusing on what we did wrong and the mistakes we made, rather than focusing on what we did right. When you focus on what you did right, you get more of what you did right.

2. The Power of Mistakes

We all make mistakes, but our mistakes and mishaps can also be a breeding ground for growth and development. It is through our mistakes that many of our biggest lessons are learned. Do you allow yourself to learn from your mistakes, or are you someone who beats yourself up after you make a mistake? Beating ourselves up causes stress, pain and upset and more often than not causes us to shut down, withdraw and stop taking risks. If we are kind to ourselves and treat our mistakes as valuable learning we grow, move forward, and our riding continues to get better.

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